The creation of the universe happened in intervals and different periods. Plants, oceans and other planets weren't created in one day; they happened through time. In science, the process of cosmic development is documentated, and we are well aware that it took millions of years. Even for religious people like Muslims and Christians, the universe or earth was created methodically through different periods; nothing happened in one day.
As humans, we are well aware that creating a baby is a process. Farming to produce food is a process. The fish in the ocean, lakes and rivers go from an egg to full-grown fish through a process too. We understand this, yet when it comes to our desires and wants logic of the cosmic gestation period for things and people goes out the window. We seem to like our desires to manifest in the quickest time. Usually, when that happens, we are trying to impress the people around us by attaining such a thing. When we are not in alignment with our truth, therefore the theatrics become more apparent.
Everything of quality takes time because you have to be processed for the very thing you have asked. You believe by attaining what you have requested that life would be better, or you would be happier. But in reality, you have to be satisfied first, and all things will be added unto you to compliment your current state of being.
You and I are not different from the seed of corn. We will both go through the process of growth, detachment, security, and being rooted in our cosmic design to flourish. We have to be patient and survive the challenges ahead became they are meant to strengthen us and prepare us for what we have asked for.
Who celebrates you? Who's in your corner in this life?
Those are tough questions. Many people are surrounded by people that don't like or love them for several reasons. Most human relationships are formed out of need or necessity. This makes human relationships tricky. I would say human relationships are categorial and very intricate.
If you don't understand people's motives in your life or circle, you will continue to experience the same problems. The best ways to be surrounded by people who love and like you, leading to an authentic celebration, start with loving and liking yourself. Many people experience the toxicity and traumas in themselves in their friendships, romantic relationships and familial ties. Because our relationship is a perfect mirror of ourselves, what we don't heal will be reflected in our space, personally and publicly.
These are the tips to follow to create a positive experience with others,
A) Your inner world is reflected in your external experiences. When something repeats in your life, check yourself first before blaming others. You are the common denominator in all your experiences. As you heal, so will your circle.
B) Celebrate others! Yes, a celebration is a two-way street. Show people the love and support you would like to receive from a real place. You cant attract or experience beautiful people and experiences from a jealous heart.
C) You are everyone! Yes, you are connected to everyone on earth. No one is below or above you. Understand this, and you will approach humanity with compassion, understanding and patience.
Every experience, good or bad, leads back to us, with this in mind. We have to self examine at all times. Pointing fingers and blaming others for our adult decision is not fair. Decisions, whether made from a conscious state or unconscious state, lead to consequences.
Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
''The Tao is empty
the ancestor of it all.''
In the 4th verse living in oneness with death and life frees you up from the worries, anxieties and so on. It is our chronic need to know what's next and the reason why things happened the way they did that ruins everything for us. We are a species that has abandoned listening to our intuition and the natural rhythm of our lives. Our need for control is the ultimate source of our worries.
''Wisdom is knowing I am nothing,
Love is knowing I am everything,
and between the two my life moves.''
Today, let's be grateful for the gift that is life. Right now is all that matters. Nothing from the past or future matters. Only NOW at this very moment is our true anchor. By being present we accept our conditions with grace.
Nyabuoy Gatbel is a South Sudanese Canadian currently living in Calgary, AB. She was born in Ethiopia in 1993 and moved to Canada as a refugee in 2002. She's currently a undergraduate student at the University of Calgary. Besides her studies she's a social entreprenuer focusing on the, ''Paarman Centre project,'' a fashion model, writer and author of the book, ''The Fire Within poetry in Thok Nath and English.''